A mission of helping women solopreneurs

Episode
The combination of getting fired shortly after a failed marriage made Vera Ilnyckyj feel like a complete failure, purposeless,...
Key takeaways
- The three biggest challenges for solo entrepreneurs are getting more visible to attract clients, building confidence and overcoming limiting beliefs, and staying focused amidst constant distractions and shiny object syndrome.
- Inner work and mindset development are critical for entrepreneurial success because you need to constantly choose who you want to show up as each day when no one is handing you a paycheck.
- Finding a supportive community of other entrepreneurs who understand your challenges is essential, whether through masterminds, networking events, or group coaching, as isolation can hinder your progress.
- Successful entrepreneurship requires constant learning and evolution, including developing skills in sales, marketing, and communication that aren't typically taught in traditional business education.
- Business coaching has proliferated because coaches help you spot blind spots, maintain accountability, and see opportunities you can't see yourself, similar to how athletes at all levels need coaches to improve performance.
Transcript
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============================================================ TRANSCRIPTION WITH SPEAKERS ============================================================ [00:00] SPEAKER_00: Welcome to Canada's Entrepreneur, where we talk to the entrepreneurs who are making it happen [00:05] SPEAKER_00: across Canada and deliver the news, trends, knowledge and opinions from entrepreneurs and business [00:13] SPEAKER_00: influences across the country. Hello, I'm Mario Tonoguzi, Managing Editor of Canada's Entrepreneur, [00:22] SPEAKER_01: joining me today on Calgary's podcast here is Vera Elnitsky, who is a coach, I guess, [00:31] SPEAKER_01: we'll talk a little bit about that, in Calgary, with create your best chapter. Thanks for joining [00:37] SPEAKER_02: us today, Vera. Well, thank you so much for having me, Mario. I'm super excited to chat with you [00:41] SPEAKER_01: today. Well, let me just ask, I guess, tell me what you do. Well, tell me what I do. Oh my gosh, [00:46] SPEAKER_02: that's such a big question, isn't it? At the base of it, I work with women solo [00:52] SPEAKER_02: printers, so women business owners, and I help them increase their impact and increase their income [00:58] SPEAKER_02: with confidence. So that's kind of at the base of what I do, but essentially I coach them, [01:04] SPEAKER_02: I also do some strategic work with them, and I really help them grow their business as a solo [01:11] SPEAKER_01: printer. Now, how would you describe what a solo printer is? Yeah. So basically it's a person [01:17] SPEAKER_02: who has their own business, and they are the face of their business, so they're their brand, [01:23] SPEAKER_02: they provide the service, so more often than not, I'm working with people who have a service-based [01:28] SPEAKER_02: business, so they're providing some sort of service to people. They have one or two people [01:34] SPEAKER_02: working for them, more often than not, they're doing everything on their own, maybe with a [01:38] SPEAKER_02: contractor consultant or some sort of outside help on a part-time basis, but for the most part, [01:44] SPEAKER_02: they're their their their business, they're doing things on their own. Okay, now, you know, [01:50] SPEAKER_01: when you're looking at this kind of area of entrepreneurship, what would you say the trends are [01:58] SPEAKER_01: these days in that, is it a growing area, first of all? Well, I think so. I mean, what I'm seeing a lot [02:05] SPEAKER_02: of is way more women starting their businesses, so kind of like me, I decided to leave my corporate [02:09] SPEAKER_02: work, you know, a number of years ago, for a wide variety of reasons. So people leave their jobs [02:15] SPEAKER_02: and start a business for a wide variety of reasons, but I'm seeing a lot more women stepping into [02:20] SPEAKER_02: entrepreneurship and really wanting to do their own thing, feel like they're doing what they're [02:26] SPEAKER_02: doing is purposeful, they want to have some flexibility, they want to really step into feeling [02:34] SPEAKER_02: like they're doing something that's fulfilling their own heart and their own soul. So I'm seeing [02:39] SPEAKER_02: that as a as a bigger trend, for sure. And then I think just people like I said wanting to create [02:46] SPEAKER_02: something of their own and feeling really proud of that and, you know, doing their just having [02:52] SPEAKER_02: the flexibility to create their life in the way that works for them. And now you're finding the [02:56] SPEAKER_01: from an age standpoint, these are usually women who have done other careers or maybe not done [03:04] SPEAKER_01: careers have maybe been, you know, stay at home parent that are moving into this. [03:13] SPEAKER_02: Well, it's interesting because I do a lot of networking as you do as well. So I meet a lot of people [03:17] SPEAKER_02: and I've met women and men who are starting their own businesses at all ages. I think it's just [03:23] SPEAKER_02: who I attract probably by virtue of the age that I'm at and by, you know, the experience that I've [03:28] SPEAKER_02: had. Most of the women that I'm working with are, I would say more in midlife, they have had a [03:33] SPEAKER_02: corporate career of some sort and they could be mothers, they could be leaders, you know, they could [03:42] SPEAKER_02: be working in large organizations or small organizations, but something has shifted for them in their [03:46] SPEAKER_02: life where they feel this desire to really step out onto their own and do what drives them and [03:54] SPEAKER_02: create something out of their own. Like I said, from a place of flexibility, from a place of purpose, [04:00] SPEAKER_02: from a place of giving back to the community, like for a wide variety of reasons, but it's just [04:06] SPEAKER_02: interesting who you attract into your life, right? Like it tends to be the people that you can really [04:12] SPEAKER_01: understand and resonate with. What are the biggest challenges that they face when they [04:18] SPEAKER_01: decide that they want to step out and start their own business? Yeah, well, so I actually [04:25] SPEAKER_02: base my business on three main pillars and these are stemming from what I see being the biggest [04:31] SPEAKER_02: challenges for women, especially and for entrepreneurs. Number one is getting more visible, right? So [04:37] SPEAKER_02: finding where are your clients? How do I get in front of them? Because as you know, there's so much [04:42] SPEAKER_02: noise out there right now, there's so much information, there's so many avenues that people can go to [04:49] SPEAKER_02: to turn to for help and support. So it's really getting them clear on how they themselves can get more [04:55] SPEAKER_02: visible and do that from a place that feels really authentic to them and really aligns with their [05:03] SPEAKER_02: values and their vision. The second challenge that I see is this challenge of confidence, right? [05:10] SPEAKER_02: Like how do I do this? I feel vulnerable. How, what are people going to think about me? I'm a little [05:15] SPEAKER_02: bit nervous or I'm scared or I have some limiting beliefs or I have some sort of, you know, stories [05:20] SPEAKER_02: that I'm telling myself that are that's holding me back for some reason. So we really do a lot of [05:24] SPEAKER_02: work around mindset and things like that. And then the third piece is staying on track because [05:30] SPEAKER_02: there's a lot of distractions and the shiny object syndrome, right? Where like what I need to do this [05:36] SPEAKER_02: and someone's telling me I need to do that and oh this new technology came out and what about this [05:41] SPEAKER_02: platform and what about that event? So there's a lot of distractions and a lot of folds up to your [05:48] SPEAKER_02: attention, right? So we're juggling a lot of balls as entrepreneurs, especially as solar printers. [05:53] SPEAKER_02: So for me, it's really important to keep my clients on track and focused on what's most important. [05:58] SPEAKER_02: Like what is actually going to drive your business forward as opposed to what's a distraction? [06:04] SPEAKER_02: So those are sort of the three main challenges. Okay. What were you doing before this? [06:09] SPEAKER_02: Well, I worked in the corporate world, my background is marketing. Okay. So, you know, again, [06:14] SPEAKER_02: I'm bringing that to my business right now, I'm working with my clients in a lot of marketing [06:17] SPEAKER_02: things and a lot of messaging, things and communication things. But I've worked in a wide variety of [06:22] SPEAKER_02: different industries. I worked in the real estate sector, residential and commercial, in the shopping [06:26] SPEAKER_02: center industry. I worked for an architectural firm. I did a little stint at an author's profit [06:31] SPEAKER_02: and at the government. So, you know, a lot of different types of industries and sectors in [06:36] SPEAKER_02: Calgary and primarily always on the marketing communication side and then got into leadership, [06:42] SPEAKER_02: which is where this love of coaching really came from because I really, really enjoyed [06:47] SPEAKER_02: leading a team, inspiring them, mentoring them, guiding them, and then most importantly, [06:53] SPEAKER_02: seeing them flourish as an employee. And that's essentially what coaching is, right? We kind of like [06:59] SPEAKER_01: help people flourish and thrive. So what can, so maybe explain to me how that transition to place [07:08] SPEAKER_01: and why, of going in from the corporate world to what you're doing now? [07:14] SPEAKER_02: Well, I started coaching back in 2016. That's what I got my certification and something I kind of [07:19] SPEAKER_02: did on the side, so to speak. And even though 10 years ago, isn't that long ago, there was no [07:24] SPEAKER_02: zoom at the time. So it was a lot of in-person. And it was just really challenging to do with a full [07:29] SPEAKER_02: time job. So, you know, I was doing a little bit of consulting. I was doing some freelance work. [07:34] SPEAKER_02: I had my own business, you know, a number of years ago and I really enjoyed that. And then ended up [07:39] SPEAKER_02: going back into the corporate world again for some, a variety of different reasons why I did that. [07:43] SPEAKER_02: And then when COVID hit, I was like, okay, it's time to step into doing my own thing again because [07:50] SPEAKER_02: the worlds are really uncertain place right now. But in my own business, I can control what I'm doing. [07:56] SPEAKER_02: And also people need support and help. And so it took me a little bit of time to actually transition [08:01] SPEAKER_02: and make the decision to leave my corporate job because initially I thought I could do both things. [08:06] SPEAKER_02: Like I can grow my business and also work a regular nine to five job. And that was burning me out. And [08:13] SPEAKER_02: I needed to make a decision like one or the other. Yeah, I couldn't do both things. And I decided to [08:17] SPEAKER_01: step into my business full time. Now, when you look at entrepreneurship in general, what do you think [08:26] SPEAKER_02: the keys to success are for people? Well, I think number one, it's always being open to learning [08:33] SPEAKER_02: new things because it's this constant learning. It's learning new skills. It's being really aware [08:40] SPEAKER_02: of yourself of where are my gaps? What are my strengths? And what am I missing as a business person? [08:46] SPEAKER_02: We're not really trained. Even though I have two business degrees, we're not really trained on [08:50] SPEAKER_02: how to run a business and what's required about. So what really is being open to what skills do I [08:55] SPEAKER_02: need to learn? So those are the skills of sales, skills of marketing, the skills of communication, [09:01] SPEAKER_02: right? The skills of being really clear on what it is that you offer. And the other piece of it is [09:07] SPEAKER_02: being kind of looking at it as an evolution. Things are always evolving and changing and it doesn't [09:13] SPEAKER_02: stay static. So as an entrepreneur, you're always listening to the environment. You're listening to [09:17] SPEAKER_02: your clients, you're listening to people. You're kind of keeping an eye on things and what is happening [09:23] SPEAKER_02: and how can I help the people that need my help? So it's this constant awareness of things. [09:30] SPEAKER_02: So I think those are the biggest things that the biggest thing for me, the Mario, was really this [09:34] SPEAKER_02: inner the inner work. Like how am I standing in my own way as an entrepreneur? Where is my lack of [09:42] SPEAKER_02: confidence or my doubt or my vulnerability or those types of things? Where is that [09:48] SPEAKER_02: hindering me? So it's a lot of inner work, which I wasn't really expecting. [09:52] SPEAKER_01: I want to ask you like how important is that inner work to do that inner work in terms of [09:59] SPEAKER_02: your success of your actual business? Yeah, it's so important and it's very interesting because [10:05] SPEAKER_02: no matter who I work with, that's always what we talk about. It always comes down to mindset and [10:11] SPEAKER_02: how are you feeling right now? And you know, what's holding you back? And so for me, it's being [10:16] SPEAKER_02: very, very critical. And it's an ongoing thing. It doesn't, it never ends, I don't think. [10:21] SPEAKER_02: It's this constant week commitment to stepping into a new version of yourself almost daily, [10:28] SPEAKER_02: right? Like who am I choosing to be today? Right? How am I going to do that? Who do I want to show [10:33] SPEAKER_02: up in the world as today? And so it's this constant commitment and dedication to that because no one's [10:40] SPEAKER_02: handing you a paycheck at the end of the week, right? It's all on you. And so you really need to be [10:46] SPEAKER_02: aware of that. And it is shifting your identity into that. And that requires this like this inner [10:53] SPEAKER_02: guidance, this inner talk all the time. And how do we focus on the positive talk, not the negative [10:59] SPEAKER_02: talk that's trying to drag us down? So it's constant. And it's for me, that's saying it's a number one [11:05] SPEAKER_02: thing that is an entrepreneur we need to be looking at. Now, when you know, 20, 30 years ago, [11:14] SPEAKER_01: the concept of a coach, you know, outside of say sports, it wasn't around, right? And [11:22] SPEAKER_01: you know, why have we seen this, I guess, proliferation of coaches out there. There's so many out there [11:30] SPEAKER_01: right now that are helping, helping business owners in their operations and helping them in their [11:40] SPEAKER_01: personal journeys as well. And so to speak, but why have we seen so many? [11:45] SPEAKER_02: Well, I think it's great that there's more coaches as we need more coaches in the world because [11:50] SPEAKER_02: that is really how we're moving people forward. And I think people are noticing the effect and the [11:55] SPEAKER_02: this, the powerful transformations that can happen in their own life, but working with a coach. [12:00] SPEAKER_02: And so then the word starting to get out and spread, it is like a sports analogy, right? And if [12:06] SPEAKER_02: you look at anybody in sports, that's even not even a professional like a semi-professional or [12:11] SPEAKER_02: anyone who wants to get better at any sport, whether you're a weekend warrior or a professional [12:17] SPEAKER_02: Olympic athlete, you have a coach because a coach can help you spot your blind spots, they can help [12:25] SPEAKER_02: you get motivated, they can help you stay accountable. They're helping you see what you can't see. [12:31] SPEAKER_02: And they're also transferring their belief to you when you maybe are lacking it a little bit. [12:37] SPEAKER_02: And it is the number one way to move forward. You know, it's because coaching is all about moving [12:42] SPEAKER_02: forward. Like where are you? Where do you want to go? And how are you going to get there? And I [12:49] SPEAKER_02: think logically we know that. And all the information's out there on the internet, Mario. Like we [12:54] SPEAKER_02: can look up what do I need to do to build a business? And yet we we extend it our own way back to what [13:00] SPEAKER_02: I was talking about before, right? We procrastinate or we're maybe not sure or we're overwhelmed by all [13:06] SPEAKER_02: the information that's out there or we have other things going on in our life. And sometimes when you're [13:12] SPEAKER_02: in that jar, so to speak, you can't see the instructions of how to get out. And so a coach really [13:19] SPEAKER_02: helps you with that. And so I think we are seeing the power that I think it's great. There's a lot [13:24] SPEAKER_02: of more coaches. I think it's great that people are hiring coaches, whether it's for their business, [13:28] SPEAKER_02: for their leadership of their incorporate or for their own personal life situation, because it [13:34] SPEAKER_02: impacts all areas of your life. So if you're improving in one area, 100% your the other parts of [13:40] SPEAKER_02: your life are going to improve as well. And people hire all types of coaches from all types of [13:47] SPEAKER_02: parts of life. And I think it's awesome. And I think that's why I think people really want [13:52] SPEAKER_02: to move forward in the life. And that's why we're seeing a lot more coaches out there. [13:57] SPEAKER_01: So, you know, in your work with the sole openers, what is the number one concern for them these days? [14:08] SPEAKER_02: Getting in front of the getting clients. Like how do I how do I build my business? And the [14:13] SPEAKER_02: way to build a business is we need to make sales and to make sales, we need to talk to people. I [14:17] SPEAKER_02: mean to get in front of people. So it's it is about getting more visible and finding those right [14:22] SPEAKER_02: people. That's always the number one concern is how do I make more money? How do I stay profitable? [14:27] SPEAKER_02: How do I grow? How do I build the business? Again, without getting burnt out or without doing [14:35] SPEAKER_02: the wrong thing, so to speak, quote unquote. But that's always the number one concern, right? [14:41] SPEAKER_01: Is how do I get in front of more people? And what about what are their thoughts and feelings about [14:49] SPEAKER_02: doing business in Calgary these days? That's an interesting question. I mean, you probably have a [14:54] SPEAKER_02: better sense of that than than I do. But you know, it's like anywhere right now. It is very volatile. [15:01] SPEAKER_02: It's a very unstable kind of a crazy world as I call it. It's just there's so much going on. [15:08] SPEAKER_02: But it's so interesting because I go to these networking events with other entrepreneurs and [15:12] SPEAKER_02: everyone has a real positive sense like very forward moving, very optimistic. It's very much [15:23] SPEAKER_02: there in creator mode. We can do this. And if we can do it together with support from each other, [15:31] SPEAKER_02: then we know that we can make this world a better place. And so they're coming at it from [15:35] SPEAKER_02: like almost like a heart centered perspective. I'm here to do, I'm here to have a purpose. [15:42] SPEAKER_02: And I know that together with other people, we can create something really great. So it's [15:47] SPEAKER_02: this really optimistic mindset. Even though there's lots of things going on in the world, [15:51] SPEAKER_02: because there's opportunities like in the chaos, there's also opportunities. [15:56] SPEAKER_01: You find that you know, Calgary has always kind of patented itself in the back and and [16:04] SPEAKER_01: bragged about the fact that it's a very entrepreneurial city. Do you still think that the case? [16:11] SPEAKER_02: Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely. And it's really fun seeing a lot of younger people too. So going to [16:21] SPEAKER_02: events or they're they just graduated from university or college or they're just starting out in [16:27] SPEAKER_02: their, you know, in their careers, but looking to start a business, I've met a lot of young people [16:31] SPEAKER_02: who have like, let's call it a side hustle, that they want to grow into their own business. [16:36] SPEAKER_02: Oh, yeah, I think I don't think that that's changed at all. I think in fact, it's probably [16:41] SPEAKER_02: gotten more. Just because of all the things that are going on, we've had so many layoffs happening, [16:46] SPEAKER_02: there's so much uncertainty in a lot of the sectors that people are like, well, do I go back to [16:52] SPEAKER_02: that where there's no certainty? Where do I build my own thing, which could be uncertain, but also [16:59] SPEAKER_02: weigh their weighing out the pros and the cons and they're thinking, I could probably make something [17:05] SPEAKER_02: work on my own. So no, I'm seeing a lot of sense of optimism. Yeah. What would you give for advice [17:14] SPEAKER_01: to somebody? Say a friend of yours came and said, hey, Vera, I'm looking at starting my own [17:20] SPEAKER_01: business. What advice would you give them? Well, besides, I'm seeing. Yes, besides some see me. [17:29] SPEAKER_02: Well, I mean, definitely finding people that are in your corner support you. So whether it is hiring [17:34] SPEAKER_02: someone that can help you, so that's, you know, again, I'm going to shameless plug. Like, definitely [17:38] SPEAKER_02: you want some of the help you and that could be a coach or strategist or somebody like that. [17:42] SPEAKER_02: But outside of that, I think finding a community, I know for me, that was really, really important [17:47] SPEAKER_02: in a big game changer because as business owners, even if we have a team, you're sitting in your [17:52] SPEAKER_02: office by yourself. This was my experience, right? I'm sitting in my office. I'm talking to my dog. [17:58] SPEAKER_02: She's not really helping me, you know, figure out if this is a good marketing strategy or, you know, [18:03] SPEAKER_02: what kind of platform to use for people to pay me, like all of those kinds of things. And so [18:08] SPEAKER_02: finding other people that you align with that are super supportive, that want to provide advice [18:16] SPEAKER_02: that can understand the challenges of being an entrepreneur. So surrounding yourself by those [18:21] SPEAKER_02: people, so finding community. And I'm creating my own community. I have a mastermind [18:27] SPEAKER_02: for women entrepreneurs that I'm growing. But outside of that, there are a lot of different things [18:33] SPEAKER_02: coming up in Calgary right now and other cities as well that are either networking events or [18:38] SPEAKER_02: their masterminds or their group coaching things or there are just people getting together to [18:44] SPEAKER_02: support each other and learn from each other and give advice. So find somebody or a group of people [18:49] SPEAKER_02: that are going to keep you uplifted and in momentum. Like that would be my number one advice. And [18:54] SPEAKER_02: you don't even have to pay for that. There's lots of free resources out there for that. [18:58] SPEAKER_01: Well, thanks so much, Evira, for joining us today. Well, thank you so much for having you, [19:03] SPEAKER_01: Maria. I really enjoyed this. All right, wonderful. That was Evira Elnetski, who is [19:08] SPEAKER_01: with Create Your Best Chapter in Calgary. I'm Mario Tonigusi, managing editor of Canada's [19:14] SPEAKER_00: Entrepreneur. Thanks for joining us today. Where we talk to the entrepreneurs who are making it happen [19:20] SPEAKER_00: across Canada and deliver the news, trends, knowledge and opinions from entrepreneurs and business [19:27] SPEAKER_00: influencers across the country.
